Solemate Review

I came across this Solemate review and wanted to share with you. Solemate Review on SOLO dot MOM. The review is in.  My review that is, on the book, Solemate:  Master the Art of Aloneness & Transform Your Life by Lauren Mackler.

I have been reading this book sent to me for the purpose of doing a review and wanted to share it with my readers here.  Some books I get like this, I don’t recommend and won’t post about them.  But this one – I do recommend you read it – especially after divorce.  However, others whether single or happily married, can glean from the information about ‘finding yourself’ as well.   This book outlines a process for not only finding WHO YOU ARE but becoming the person you were meant to be, the type person you would want be with and experience a sense of wholeness instead of looking for a person out there to ‘complete you.’

You have recently heard me dispel the idea of .  This book helps you cope with the realization that you need to develop your own life vision, your own action plan to get yourself into gear and not rely on someone else (an ideal partner) to make you happy.  In other words finding contentment with yourself can make you content with your world around you.

This in no way is to suggest that you don’t need relationships in your life.  On the contrary the book outlines the very need we as humans have for other people to be in our lives – our outer support system.   has a whole chapter titled: Building an Inner and Outer Support System.

By becoming a whole person it will help you and I to have healthier relationships with a life partner.  Working on ourselves, owning our stuff that we have carried around with us... Click here to read the entire review.